Act Like a Lady, Think Like A Man

"I may dissect each little thing and put myself out there so much but at least that means that I still care. Oh! You've think you won because women are expendable to you. You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way but you don't fall in love that way either. You have not won. You're alone. I may do a lot of stupid shit but I'm still a lot closer to love than you are."

I know that there are a lot of dating books out there who gives girls (have you ever noticed that almost all the dating books are targeted on women, alone?) "advice" as to how to act, how to date, how to speak, how to pick up a man, how to reply text messages, how not to do this, how not to do that, how not to expect from man, what man don't do, etc. In my opinion, these books is merely useful for one purpose, entertainment.

Oh well, maybe they are of better use for all the men around the world than for women, though they are too ego-istic and manly to claim that they'd ever heard or touched such book before. (Almost all the dating books in the world is written by a man) Well, although they haven't, these books will surely help all the chauvinist in the world in providing a huge array of women who thinks alike, who puts up virtually NO expectation from men, who is carrying all the buck, women who unconsciously gives up all their expectations/romantic dreams from men and simply demise them as "that's just the way men are" and such. For me, these books, basically serves a purpose to de-feminize women, and basically just describes them as a tool to please the men.

Men, come on, who cares that much about your expectation or the way you work? Society have came to a point where we all are considered equal, and that bigblackwolf cannot believe that us woman are still so backwards in these areas and are severely compromising ourselves to give men an "out". Let's face it, its time to tell ourselves that we can live without men, have money without the help of men, and even have babies without men.

We have come to the point where we can sit around and NOT think about what men wants, not learn about how to act to live up to a men's expectations, and certainly NOT scaling back our expectations in order to find a "man's love" and to have men "pull their weight" or to learn that we have to sleep with a man whenever they ask because otherwise they will leave us.

Maybe its time for the men to scale back their expectations as well, and to start living in the 21st century.

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